Anonymous asked: I've met this incredible girl recently. We started out with just friends, then cuddles, and now kissing.. I really want to go down on her and make love with her, but this will be my first time. She's had other girlfriends before and has done stuff with them. I told her i'm new to this and that i'm not the type to pull the moves first, she told me she's the same way.. should I just go for it? Put together the courage and please her? and advice?
You will NEVER get comfortable with things if you don’t do them. I definitely think you should gather the courage and go for it. Make sure that your girl knows that you’re pretty new to things. It will make things more comfortable for you because then she will know and try to make things go a little more smoothly. When you’re in the moment, most of the fears you are having right now will go away, and you’ll more than likely end up with an amazing experience. Don’t be afraid to talk a little. It will take a lot of the pressure off of you if you actually know what she likes. Whether you ask her before hand or slyly slip it in while things are happening, make sure she actually likes what you’re doing.
The biggest piece of advice I have is don’t be so nervous and just go for it. You’ll enjoy it if you do and regret it if you don’t. Have fun ;)